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Sauti Sol’s Bien Says He Is Not Ready To Have Kids, Wants to Get a Vasectomy

Bien Aime, a singer with Sauti Sol, has not yet become a father, but he is considering a number of things for the future.

In an interview with Doctor Reign and rugby star Dennis Ombachi, Bien disclosed that he will assume “responsibility for contraception.”

Bien stated during the Bald Box Sessions that he saw family planning to be an unnecessary burden placed on women and urged men to assist.

“I’m willing to look into a vasectomy. I’m tired of putting this burden on our chicks. First of all, I know different contraceptives have different side effects,” Bien said.

“You don’t have any say over a woman’s body, if she has done her research and says this is making me feel like this then that s it,” Bien said in response to Dr. Reign’s comment.

Bien asked the doctor what he might take as a man to make using contraception easier and less of a hassle.

“Is there a pill I can take? Can you take us through the process of a vasectomy?”

Despite offering his opinion, the doctor suggested that an expert be consulted.

Marriage

Bien is married to professional dancer Chiki Kuruka and the two tied the knot in March 2020. However the couple has not been blessed with a child.

Bien previously made comments on being in open marriage stirring an online debate about their union. They later refuted the claims, saying that their comments were taken out of context.

Speaking during an interview with ‘Over Twenty Five’ show last week, Bien sparked a new debate after revealing that he would not expect to be the only man his wife will be with, 30 to 40 years in marriage.

Bien added that the dynamics of their relationship would have changed then and that sex would have ceased being a deal-breaker in their union.

The talented vocalist further revealed that if his wife fell in love with someone else, he would not be an impediment in her quest to actualize her ‘fantasy’. Bien was however quick to note that they are not in an open relationship.

“Let’s say I am married to Chiki for 30/40 years; I am not expecting that am the only dude she will be with.

“If she goes and meets the crush of her life, jibambe babe. I’m not in an open relationship. All am saying is that during such a time, the deal-breaker won’t be sex.

“It can be trust or the business we have built together because the dynamics of a relationship keep changing. No one person can own a human being. I don’t own my wife. She is her own woman,” Bien said.

He added that it was prudent for partners to identify their hobbies and things they can do on their own claiming that it was not advisable for couples to peg their happiness on their spouses.

“There is a notion that once I am married to you I am now your property and my happiness is tied to you and you keep saying ‘you are my man’. I am my own man. When you are with somebody you are not supposed to own them. You are to experience them,” he said.

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