Firdah Kajala, a Tanzanian socialite, apologized to her daughter Paula after it was revealed that they had dated the same man.
Both the mother and daughter are said to have dated singer Rayvanny.
The mother of one broke down on their reality show Behind The Glam, admitting she didn’t consider the consequences of her actions.
Fridah awakens Paula expresses her desire for them to converse.
“I am sorry,” the embarrassed mum says.
A confused Paulah questions why her mum is apologizing.
“I feel like I failed you as a mum, you look up to me for everything.
We have a very good bond but I made a decision that you kept telling me not to, I am sorry.
It hurts me because there are things I would have thought about.
I feel bad but there is I can do.” Fridah apologized.
Speaking to a therapist, Fridah says her daughter would often cry when the allegations came out.
This is because of the negative perception people had of her.
“There is a day she told me she was bothered about how people view her.
She was scared that the negative publicity would hinder her for the rest of her life.
There are things she would say that made me feel she was hurting.”
Paula assured her mother that there was no bad blood between them adding that those are things from the past.
Harmonize expressed displeasure in the act of Rayvanny starting an affair with Paula who was then still a school-going girl.
According to Konde Boy, the WCB signee was out to ruin Paula’s life at the expense of his blossoming music career.
He added that Vanny Boy opted to date Paula out of jealousy because Harmonize was at the time dating her mother Frida Kajala.
On Valentine’s Day (2022), Rayvanny raised eyebrows after sharing videos of getting cozy with Paula Kajala, an act that angered her mother, to the extend of asking the government to intervene.