Benjamin Zulu Explains Interesting Reasons Why Men Should Not Pay School Fees For A Woman

Before committing to marriage, Benjamin Zulu, a counseling psychologist, has counseled men against paying their partners’ tuition.

The life coach observed that men frequently fund their partners’ tuition in the hopes of getting them to marry them, then become upset when the women break up the relationship.

Women enter into relationships with the intention of becoming educated, according to Zulu, and depart after reaping the benefits.

Age and degree of desperation, according to Zulu, are two elements that influence whether or not a woman accepts an offer.

He emphasized that because young women’s brains are still developing, it can be difficult for them to make sound decisions.

When kids reach adulthood (age 25), according to Zulu, this subsequently alters as their priorities shift.

“You promise her that you will take her to school and that is all she wanted and she now feels happy and excited that she will now attend school,” said Zulu on Citizen TV.

“But problem is there was nothing tied to marriage in her thoughts. Her mind has not fully developed and men know women’s brains get to fully develop at 25 years but they still love engaging young women into relationships.”

He added: “Problem is when this young lady starts to learn and her brain is developing she is exposed to more things and when she fully develops she withdraws from you because her priorities and preferences have changed.”

Zulu further blamed men for engaging young women into relationships with deceptive offers, thinking that they will tame them to be their wives.

He urged them to focus on more mature women who are ready for marriage lest they find themselves falling victims to regret.

“Marry women who are looking for husbands, their minds are psychologically ready for marriage. The journey of marriage is hard, it cannot be achieved by coercing a young child into it by paying school fees for her, ” he said.