Digital creator Mungai Eve has stirred online conversations after revealing that for her to fully respect her partner, he needs to earn more than she does.
Speaking on a recent podcast with Liz Jackson, Eve explained that even if her partner earns a decent income, she would subconsciously disrespect him if it’s less than her earnings.
“If you marry me and I am earning KSh 1 million while you’re earning KSh 80k, I will disrespect you unknowingly. I’ll look down on you subconsciously. A man is supposed to be the head,” she stated.
Liz Jackson Echoes Mungai Eve Sentiments
Liz Jackson, the host, supported Mungai Eve’s stance, expressing that her partner also needs to earn more for her to feel secure, especially in emergencies.
“Ukikuja na salary yako ya 80k, tutasaidiana aje? Kama huwezi nitumia 500k urgently, tunasaidiana aje?” Liz remarked, emphasizing the importance of financial stability in a relationship.
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Mixed Reactions from Fans
The statements sparked a heated debate across social media, with opinions divided. While some fans supported the idea that financial disparities affect respect in relationships, others argued that respect should not be tied to income.
Ntazola Gloria commented:
“She’s right 😂😂. A lot will get mad, but if you are a man, marry someone who earns less than you; that relationship will work. If you make 80k, go for a babe who makes 20k. If you make 1m, go for a babe who makes 200k. Personally, I can’t respect a man who earns less than me. You make less, we are bros. You make more, I take command, and you become my boss, turning me into your slave 🤣🤣.”
Cynthia Zion shared a different perspective:
“Don’t mind her. If you get money, go back to school. There’s a way you’ll view the world differently. Also, there’s a difference between someone giving you KSh 1 million as a girlfriend because he needs your legs wide open at his convenience, and you working for it. Young women should work, build themselves, and wait for love to knock on their doors. Before you attack me, I work for my own money, and this is my opinion.”
The Ongoing Debate on Love and Money
The remarks have reignited discussions on the role of financial stability in relationships and whether income disparities influence respect and power dynamics. While some argue for traditional roles where men are the primary providers, others advocate for mutual respect regardless of financial contribution.
What’s your take? Should income determine respect in a relationship?
