City preacher and Christian Foundation Fellowship (CFF) founder Bishop Harrison Nganga has urged couples to avoid addressing each other as “mummy” and “daddy,” warning that it could erode romantic attraction in their relationships.
“When you call your husband daddy, he might end up marrying someone else. How can both you and the kids call him daddy? Itabidi awaletee mama yao,” he cautioned.
Similarly, he advised men to stop referring to their wives as “mummy,” stating,
“If you call her mum, with time, you’ll start seeing each other as mother and son. She might end up looking for someone else.”
Harrison Nganga Warnings About Baby Daddies
Bishop Harrison also warned women about rekindling intimacy with their baby daddies if they return to apologize.
“Mahali umewahi kugongewa, unaweza gongewa tena. The person who gave you kids, even if you see him as a devil with horns, can impregnate you again. If he humbles himself, you may end up having a second child with him.”
He shared an example of a woman who reconciled with her baby daddy after his apology, resulting in three additional children, despite the man being married and only offering child support.
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Advice on Marriage and Communication
Ng’ang’a advised young men to wait before rushing into marriage, urging them to mature first.
“Who told you to get married at 21? By the time you reach 27, you may meet your Mr. or Mrs. Right. Men are marrying too early and then struggling to communicate effectively. Being disturbed by a woman is what we call marriage,” he quipped.
Speaking on effective communication, Ng’ang’a emphasized the importance of men listening to their wives.
“Sikiliza bibi. Learn to listen, even if it doesn’t make sense. That’s what having a wife means. Table room means staying and listening to your wife, even if you’re sleepy, sipping coffee while she talks,” he said.
He humorously added that he sometimes listens to his wife until 2 a.m. and advised men to turn off the television when their wives need to talk, highlighting that men cannot multitask like women.
“Don’t destroy your marriage at the table room; talk to her and listen,” he urged.
