In an interview with media personality Lynn Ngugi on June 7, singer Vivian frankly admitted that after she broke her relationship with her ex, Sam West, everything in her life fell apart.
She went on to say that she used to spend the most of her time with Sam because of their working conditions, as he was also her manager and marketer.
“Ideally, a proper marriage you have to synergize. You have to create a proper foundation but you also have to synergize.
For me as a musician how I would handle things in a business perspective,” Vivian said.
Vivian also disclosed that she had a bad contract at the time, but she was able to get out of it in the beginning of this year, 2023.
She then stated that she is now a single mother again, albeit she wishes the divorce had been more peaceful.
Vivian admitted that the separation process was aggressive as Sam walked out on the marriage, despite the fact that she had done the same earlier in their marriage.
“Even as he walked out, initially we tried to repair and we even had a few meetings. I think what relationships do is that they force you to grow,” Vivian added.
However, she finally recognized that Sam was also in pain, which motivated her to investigate how men and women perceive pain differently.
Vivian insisted that she opted to let go of any resentment toward Sam because she didn’t want it to overwhelm her inwardly. She made the decision to let go with love.
She also denied reports that Sam abandoned her because she couldn’t bear him a kid.
She added that their initial aim was to integrate their two children first, as they both brought a child from prior relationships into the marriage.
